HHDX: At least we don't have to look forward to seeing you on BET: UnCut. Most of the men on the site were very critical of our first winner of this section -- why should they be more welcoming to you?

Millie: Well, I think I am the epitome of the title of this piece. I have the beauty as well as the brains. With me, my beauty is not only in the physical, the beauty that I am truly proud of is that of my free, yet deep rooted, spirit, and creativeness. Underneath all that cut-throat humor, I’m just a big softie with an even bigger heart. My brain’s are not only that of book smarts, but that of street smarts, wit, and conscience. C'mon guys! Give me a chance! [laughs]

HHDX: Let’s hope our readers don’t put you on the chopping block too fast. You have a post on your blog entitled, "Hell Hath No Fury..." It highlighted some of the devious things that slighted women would do to their ex's. What has a man done to you that was considered the most ruthless thing ever and what was your revenge?

Millie: I never had anyone do something to me that I needed to perform an act of revenge, but I did have a crazy ex-boyfriend who hacked into my online accounts and checked my emails and conversations I was having with friends.

HHDX: So what’d you do about the Bill Gates impersonator trying to be all in your business?

Millie: I had someone else deal with it [laughs]. I don't get my hands dirty with such nonsense.

HHDX: Just as long as you don't have a "thin line between love and hate" jump-off, you'll be cool with me. For all the other ladies who are trying to walk the same path that you are, what are some words of advice?

Millie: I think today, women are so caught up in finding a life partner that they have no time set aside to get their life together. And in that aspect, they need to get themselves situated emotionally, spiritually, financially and morally, and THEN they can offer a complete and 100% person to someone else.

You can visit Ms. Millie Rivera at http://www.myspace.com/millierivera.